by Pang Khee Teik
“Today
I withhold this keris. But if one day I can't tolerate anymore, I will use the
keris against the enemy of this land!”
– Speaker at Anti-LGBT Rally, 12 Apr 2012
When the speaker at the Anti-LGBT rally talked
about killing whoever he imagined is “the enemy of this land”, and by enemy he
implied anyone who advocates for the human rights of LGBTs, the authorities looked
the other way. But when Seksualiti Merdeka appealed for understanding,
compassion and equality, it was deemed a threat to the national security and was
banned by the police.
Have we gotten so used to threats that we are now
threatened by compassion? Or could it be that we can no longer tell the
difference between those making threats and those upholding the law? Look at
what is happening at Dataran Merdeka this week. By brute force, the authorities
have attempted to subdue those who dare to question their authority. If that
fails, they will try to snuff out our hope for change by applying administrative
terrorism.
It’s not just the police and the DBKL. I’m
afraid the courts are no better. Seksualiti Merdeka’s judicial review of the
ban was thrown out by a judge who insisted that the police’s power cannot be
reviewed, effectively allowing the police a caveat to abuse its power
unchallenged.
Last week, a teenager was charged for
assaulting a Mak Nyah with a metal rod. He was fined a mere RM400. Meanwhile, when Mak
Nyahs around the country are arrested under Syariah offences for expressing themselves
and not hurting anybody, they are fined RM1000 each and sent for counselling. We
try to rehabilitate these Mak Nyahs for being too gentle, but these men who are
so insecure about their masculinity they need to prove it through violence, we
let them out to play after a smack on the hand.
So, at the forum titled “Homosexuality: A
right or a crime?” at International Islamic University Malaysia two weeks ago,
when the question was posed by an audience, “Aren’t the laws we already have
enough to protect the LGBTs? We have laws for murder, for physical assault, for
wrongful termination at work, etc. Are they not enough?” I can say, the answer
is no.
In this article, I am less interested in what
JMM said than in how they get away with what they say. I am interested in how
the government of the day, which is supposed to be neutral, takes the side of
the bullies against the bullied.
With bullies running the country, many LGBTs find
themselves hiding further and further beyond the margins of the legal, beyond
the reach of the laws that deem them unfit for society. Making a person think
he deserves no justice is NO different from denying him justice. And that is how
many LGBTs are denied one of the most fundamental rights of being human: the
right to justice.
THE
BULLY’S CHARTER
Malaysians don’t seem to understand that a
just system is one in which minorities are protected from the majority, not the
other way round. The most important minority is the minority of one. And if the
law protects this minority against the tyranny of the majority, then it
protects everyone. All of us!
Unfortunately, that is not the case in
Malaysia. Not only does Malaysian justice not care about inequality, it seems
to thrive on it. Some laws in Malaysia are effectively a bully’s charter.
Case in point: there is no law against
homosexuality in Malaysia yet many believe it is a crime to be gay and lesbian.
People may cite penal code “377a” and “377b”. But according to the wording of the
statute, the crime is committed when ANYONE introduces his penis into a mouth
or anus. Yes, ANYONE. I’m sorry to break it to you heteros: it is a crime for a
husband to receive blowjobs from a wife too. You like this law so much, how
about we knock down all your bedroom doors now and check?
Clearly both heterosexual and homosexual oral
and anal sex are illegal but where the public and the state are concerned, it
is a law against homosexuality. This is because “377” only targets men who have
sex with men. If that is not discriminatory, then I don’t know what is.
That’s why many LGBTs don’t bother to seek
redress to injustice they suffered. They are simply too disempowered by the
perceived illegality of their very existence. They are too busy hiding from an
imaginary law.
“YOU
ARE A DEVIL!”
I know of a girl in Sabah whose mom found out
she was in love with another girl. Her mom hit her repeatedly till she was
bleeding. She was then locked up in the house for four months. The only times
she was let out of the house was when she was sent for counselling during which
she was told, “You are a devil. You are a devil.” There are many other girls like
her in Malaysia locked up by parents because they fell in love.
I know of a teenaged guy from Penang who was kicked
out from the home when his parents cannot accept that he wants to be a man, not
the girl he was born as. For being born that way, many transgender folks are kicked
out from homes by the very people who gave birth to them that way. Where are
the laws to protect children from their own parents? How will they even know
what the laws are?
Even those old enough to know the laws can’t
do anything about it. I know of a lecturer from Petaling Jaya whose friend
threatened to expose his sexual orientation to the university unless the friend
was rewarded to keep quiet. He paid up. He had been discreet about his sexuality
because he feared such a situation. But his secret also made him vulnerable. Many
gay employees and bosses, professionals and civil servants, go to work daily afraid
of being exposed. After years of alienation, they may have found comfort in a
relationship. Yet this relationship threatens to ruin them. So many give in to
blackmailers. How can they seek justice without risking exposure?
I know of a Mak Nyah from Melaka who was
arrested for “cross-dressing” and was kicked by the arresting officers until
she fell into a coma. She was persuaded to charge them for assault, but in the
end, she changed her mind. She wasn’t sure if anyone could guarantee her safety
from further assaults by these officials. Many Mak Nyahs suffer physical,
emotional, sexual abuse at the hands of religious officers and police officers.
Where are the laws to protect them from being abused by law enforcers?
Many LGBTs are spat at, insulted and punished as
if we are worse criminals than the corrupt politicians who rob whole countries dry.
Why would we be foolish enough to dream that the country would help us?
Once you are betrayed by your own parents, by
your bosses, by your friends, by your own country, you will find it hard to trust
anyone again. Once you hear about how LGBTs are beaten senseless by law
enforcers, as an LGBT you will find it hard to trust the laws again.
WHERE
ARE THE LAWS?
The laws are there. But they’re out of reach.
Living in a country where justice exists – but
not for you – is like growing up in a family where love exists – but not for
you. For many LGBTs, such countries and such families are part of our reality.
Both conditions form a vicious circle out of
which there seems to be no escape. In order to deserve love, we pretend to be
someone else. In order to maintain the pretence, we keep quiet in the face of injustice.
By pretending and keeping quiet, we find ourselves at the mercy of those who
take advantage of us. Thus more pretending, more keeping quiet, more being
taken advantage of.
When I mentioned at the Islamic University
forum how the justice system have failed LGBTs, I was offered this reply by a
panellist: “Do we not treat criminals different from non-criminals?”
Like many Malaysians, she accepts
unquestioningly that being an LGBT is a crime. She called it an immorality but
never explained how it is immoral. Throwing children out from homes, blackmailing
and beating up mak nyahs are just different ways of treating these “criminals”.
Never mind that nobody should be called a criminal until proven guilty. Never
mind that throwing minors out of homes, blackmailing, and physical assault are
crimes in themselves. Being an LGBT must be a crime so great that others are
justified in perpetrating further crimes upon us.
No wonder some Malaysians think it is okay to
make violent threats and get away with it. Because they can.
DIFFERENT
LANGUAGES
At the end of that forum that night, it
occurred to me that while both sides of the debate referred to the laws this and
the laws that, we actually meant completely different things. When we referred to “the laws”, we were thinking of an instrument that protects
people. When some people refer to “the laws”, they were thinking of an
instrument that punishes people.
This disparity reveals the opposing philosophies:
people as innocent until proven guilty vs people as inherently guilty, in need
of control and guidance from the state. One’s justice is fairness, equality,
protection of rights. Another’s justice is vengeance, a show of might, reminding
the minorities to toe the line.
Our words sound the same but they mean such
different things that we are practically speaking different languages from each
other. We might as well be talking to ourselves. Perhaps we are, and that’s the
problem.
We need to introduce Malaysians to a radical
concept: There is more than one definition to a word. More than one side to a
story. More than one way to run a country.
More radical still: The state’s job is to facilitate
as neutral as possible a space in which all definitions, all sides and all the
different ways can dialogue.
That is why we need to get rid of discriminatory
laws. We also need to send a stronger message to those who use violence, who threaten
with violence, who endorse violence, that it is never okay. Fines and prison
time won’t change them. But education may. Too many Malaysians display shocking
ignorance about the way the universe and the human body work. That they are in
the parliament is even more depressing. They are walking proof that what we
need is a revolution in education.
If we just clean one thing at a time, we are
practically doing janitorial work. We also have to reform the very fundamental
ways we understand governance, democracy, justice. Without a paradigm shift, we
are just cleaning up this paradigm’s shit.
FIGHTING
FOR THE SAME
Whether it is the indigenous peoples in their
ancestral lands or the Occupy Dataran folks at Dataran Merdeka or the students
at their universities, the increasing scuffles with the authorities reveal
today that the struggle for justice is not peculiar just to LGBTs. They are
reflections of how far justice is from those who truly need it.
We are stuck with pleading for justice from
the very ones who have perverted justice. It is like the grass begging for
mercy from the grass cutter. No thanks.
We need to believe that we are first the people,
REGARDLESS of sexual orientation and gender identity. We need to take back the act
of defining words that are important to us. We need to tell our stories. We
need to stake claim to all the public spaces till they belong to everyone again.
I applaud everyday Malaysians who tirelessly
champion for the changes we need in this country. Indigenous peoples, refugees,
students, the poor, minorities, LGBTs, women, political dissidents, religion
believers, voters, we are fighting for the same: to be seen as human first. What
you believe makes you human and what I believe makes me human are just as
important.
The real enemy of this land is inequality. There
is no more important struggle today than the struggle for equality. It is by recognising
we are all equal before the law that the democracy for which we fight becomes
truly meaningful.
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